Kayo Varba

The teenage brain is by far the sharpest one, but most misused. Teenagers are nothing but adults, who aren’t quite sure about what to do with their lives. They find it hard to develop a focus. This in-turn leaves them more vulnerable to getting into the wrong path. They are easily influenced by almost everything that surrounds them. “Should I do it or not?”, we all would have asked ourselves this question at many instances in our life. Teenagers are also prone to impulsive behavior and are afraid to be different. Many of these influences are positive, leading them to become better individuals, while others have adverse effects on their growth, behavior and development. Often sucked into the influence, teenagers are often found resorting to alcohol, drugs, in a futile attempt to relax them.

Here are  Five  of the most impact influences in a teenager’s life

1) Your friends/Your social circle

Imagine that you are watching your all time favorite movie. A couple of your friends see what you are watching, and mock you saying it is a lame movie. On the inside, you think otherwise, but in order to be accepted by your friends, you agree with them. This is one of the basic forms of peer influence, where you start doing what others like, instead of living for yourself. On a deeper level, teens start smoking, drinking, and being rebellious to their parents, because their friends do. They like to live on the edge. However, this influence can also be positive. Sometimes, teenagers enroll in workshops/projects when their friends are there. In the process, they do gain knowledge which benefits them. This type of influence is the one hardest to resist, and all of us fall prey to it, simply to be “cool”.

2) Parents

Remember that time your mom said “listen to me, you will regret it later”, and in reality, you DID regret not listening to her. Parents are one of the most positive influences in a teens life. However, we don’t realize it. Teens are in a phase of taking risks, and rebelling, even when they are physically and financially dependent on their parents for support. Parents positively influence children with respect to their career, studies and even topics like sex, advising them to go the right way. Children don’t realize this, but their parents are the ones who are responsible for carving their children into what they are. From a parents point of view, it is mandatory to ensure you’re a positive influence in your child. Children of alcoholic parents are more likely to follow their footsteps. So as a parent, it is important to see what is good for your child at that point, and how your actions directly or indirectly influence your child.

3) Celebrities/ Movies

This type of influence majorly affects those in their early teens. Celebrities are often used to endorse various products, as when we see our favorite TV/Movie star using a product, we become more tempted to own it. Also, movies display a wide range of inappropriate activities, like violence, fighting, smoking, drugs etc.. Which do have a negative impact on teenagers, who automatically think that what they see is acceptable and are motivated to try the same in their daily lives.. In today’s world, a child is more likely to listen to words said by a celebrity, rather than his own parents. So, this influence has the ability to become a really positive one, where celebrities can actually influence teenagers to develop a focus towards their life.

4) Technology

Technology has both positive as well as negative influence on teenagers. The Internet is a powerful tool, where students can find information on whatever they want. However, the Internet is also home to pornography, and various online sexual activities, where students can get distracted. A picture is worth a thousand words! The television, which almost everyone is glued to, can potentially be a very good influence. But over-watching television can lead to depression, obesity and anti-social traits. A majority of teenagers also spent time gaming, which can lead to vision impairment, as well as affect the brain.

5) Social media/Instant messaging (texting)

The social circle of a teenager plays a crucial role in this type of influence. Texting soon becomes an addiction among children, and they spend hours glued to their phones. Also, it is common for teenagers to engage in sexting, and they think it is okay as long as they do it with their friends. Other factors like sharing too much personal information and cyber bullying can be very dangerous to a teens life. Also, the concept of online dating is also increasing. Various apps and websites have been introduced, where people can meet other people with similar interests. But, kidnappers and other rapists develop fake profiles, and then start torturing/blackmailing teenagers. As a parent, it is important to control and limit the number of hours your child spends on social media

In conclusion, as a teenager, it is important to build a focus, and get your priorities straight. This is the age where you can push your limits and really achieve great heights. At any cost shouldn’t this stage be wasted in things you mining regret in the future

Kayo Varba

Do you know how much of the ice berg is visible above the water surface? Those who do not know the answer will be surprised to know that the ice berg that is seen floating on the icy waters is just 10% of the entire rock, whose 90% of the structure lies beneath the waters.

Similarly, have we ever pondered over the fact that our body, our external appearance, sums to just 10% of who we actually are? The 90% of us comprises of the inner being that we are. Most of us call this ‘Kayo Varba’ by different names, such as moral values, character, personality, etc. How we value this in others as well as strive to empower our Kayo Varba is what each one of us needs to learn. Morals are easy to state but difficult when put to practical use. Honesty, patience, the choice of our friends, loyalty, etc. are values that determine our Kayo Varba. They are always put to test, each day of our lives. When we learn to strengthen these values and act in accordance with them, we uncover for us, a world of greater possibilities. Thus, it is essential to understand that there are ways to develop, train and mold our Kayo Varba, to achieve all human goals that we can dream of and gear up for the beyond.

Ambitions can be achieved with the help of understanding the various facets of Kayo Varba and strengthening the principles required to craft a benevolent Kayo Varba. The secret for an impressive Top Ten – our external body, also lies through our Kayo Varba. It cannot be hard to imagine Mother Teresa, Mahatma Gandhi, Bill Gates, and other successful personalities, having paved their way to an extraordinary Top Ten through the wisdom and composure of their Kayo Varba.

Kayo Varba and Top Ten of each person empowers him to not just achieve all his goals but even speculate the dimensions that lie ahead of basic human and emotional intelligence. This is inherently achieved and sparked by the Hidden Infinity that lies within the realms of our Kayo Varba and works as a storehouse of all information. The wisdom encompassed in a human soul is what encourages a person to work efficiently on his Kayo Varba as well as his Top Ten. This wisdom is hidden and can be expounded only through the teachings of Do you know how much of the ice berg is visible above the water surface? Those who do not know the answer will be surprised to know that the ice berg that is seen floating on the icy waters is just 10% of the entire rock, whose 90% of the structure lies beneath the waters.

Similarly, have we ever pondered over the fact that our body, our external appearance, sums to just 10% of who we actually are? The 90% of us comprises of the inner being that we are. Most of us call this ‘Inner Ninety’ by different names, such as moral values, character, personality, etc. How we value this in others as well as strive to empower our Kayo Varba is what each one of us needs to learn. Morals are easy to state but difficult when put to practical use. Honesty, patience, the choice of our friends, loyalty, etc. are values that determine our Kayo Varba. They are always put to test, each day of our lives. When we learn to strengthen these values and act in accordance with them, we uncover for us, a world of greater possibilities. Thus, it is essential to understand that there are ways to develop, train and mold our Kayo Varba, to achieve all human goals that we can dream of and gear up for the beyond.

Ambitions can be achieved with the help of understanding the various facets of Kayo Varba and strengthening the principles required to craft a benevolent Kayo Varba. The secret for an impressive Top Ten – our external body, also lies through our Kayo Varba. It cannot be hard to imagine Mother Teresa, Mahatma Gandhi, Bill Gates, and other successful personalities, having paved their way to an extraordinary Top Ten through the wisdom and composure of their Kayo Varba.

Kayo Varba and Top Ten of each person empowers him to not just achieve all his goals but even speculate the dimensions that lie ahead of basic human and emotional intelligence. This is inherently achieved and sparked by the Hidden Infinity that lies within the realms of our Kayo Varba and works as a storehouse of all information. The wisdom encompassed in a human soul is what encourages a person to work efficiently on his Inner Ninety as well as his Top Ten. This wisdom is hidden and can be expounded only through the teachings of Kayo  masters who, have known and understood the secret language of this wisdom that lies within each one of us.

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